Based on a variety of information, Anne Burgess put together the Balfe connection with those in the Aghowle Civil Parish, the Kilcaven area and other areas in County Wexford and Wicklow, with the Balfes who settled in or near Kitley, Smiths falls and Oro, Ontario.  Note that some of the information is speculation, but it is the best I've seen, thus far.

 

Here's the short version of my take on the K'town bunch. There are no baptismal records for any of these Balfes, either, but the children that I propose for the Widow Balfe of Kennystown DID all come to Smiths Falls (except for maybe Bridget Shannon--I may not have her right, since the FW record says she's a cousin. She could be a dtr of the Widow Balfe of Boley).
 
 

Edward (m. Mary Doyle? Mary Kenny?). He appears often with a Doyle godmother as sponsor for various Balfe children in K'town/Parkmore. He was gfather/witness at a lot of Tomacork parish sacraments, but John recently did a followup search, looking for that Catherine Balfe of Kitley/Smiths Falls, and he found Edward/Edmond Balfe and Kitty Doyle were also witnesses at a marriage in Stranakelly (close to Boley)--Clonmore RC parish--for a Patrick Doyle/Judy Toole marriage in Jan. 1839. This Doyle couple then had their children back in Tomacork parish. So there WERE connections between K'town and Boley.

 

- Edward seems to have had only one child, according to the FW rentals: dtr. Margaret b c1788 (m. Michael Hendrick; emigrated to Old Chelsea, QC, close to Ottawa). The only Balfe gparent for the Hendrick children was Nick Balfe (Montague Nick, presumably); the other gps were mostly my Murphys.

 

Widow Balfe of Kennystown m. Unnamed Balfe

3 sons and 3 daughters living with her in the 1827 FW rental records 

                

Here's my guess at who they were: 

- John, b. c1806 (m. Alice Dobbs)

- Thomas, b. c1807 (m. Sally Kenny)

- Mary, b. c 1808 (m. Michael Lowman)

- Margaret, b. c 1810 (m. James Foster)

- Bridget, b. c1812 (m. Thomas Shannon; widowed, and m. 2)?? Patrick Canty??) As a widow, she lived with the Thomas Balfe family in Kennystown. HOWEVER: the FW eviction record calls Bridget Shannon a cousin of Thomas Balfe.

- Nicholas, b. c1816 (m. Cath. Kealey)

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There was only ONE Balfe family in Boley; and there was only one Patrick Balfe who could be the father in Boley then, and it was Old Kitley Nick's brother.
 
Using the Irish naming pattern, I've also been assuming that the father of Thos. Balfe (m. Bridget Butler and Margaret A. Hunt) was also called Patrick, and his mother was either Mary or Anne. I think Thomas was a brother to Catherine and Ellen (above), born in the period where there are no records, to Patrick Balfe and Anne Price. This couple surely had more than 2 children.
 
What we did know from John's earlier reports:
 
- that Mary Balfe Shanks, and Old Kitley Nick, and Patrick Balfe (m. Anne Foster/Pryce) were the children of the Widow Balfe of Boley, in the 1827 FW rentals records. But who was their father?
 
What we now know:
 
- the father of Old Kitley Nick et al was called PATRICK. There was a Pat Balfe in Boley with 3 acres in the 1825 Tithe Applotments; no widow. Pat was gone by the 1827 FW rental records, and in his place was the Widow Balfe on a tiny plot. In the 1839 rentals, OK Nick is back in Boley (he'd been at Mungacullen and Cronelea), living with the Widow Balfe on a miniscule piece of land, barely enough for a cabin and garden. He was a laborer, travelling around the townlands for work.
 
The only Balfe marriage records in this area are for Mary Balfe Shanks and Thos. Balfe/Bridget Butler - because they married in the bride's home townland, I think. The other Balfes, John speculates, may have married brides from just over the border in Carlow, maybe in the Myshall area. (For instance, there were Prices living in Killalongford, where Michael Shanks was from.) There are no records that early there. So...we're stuck with speculation.
 
Re Old Kitley Nick: once we knew his father was Patrick, I wondered why his first son wasn't called Patrick. And of course, he was there all the time. He's clearly Patrick Balfe (b. c1819) who m. Mary Byrne. (Nick's daughter, Mary, married a Patrick Byrne; maybe a brother?)
 
And the most satisfying thing of this whole search is that Patrick Balfe and Mary Byrne moved around a lot, prob. as a laborer, too. He was married in the Tomacork records, although the residence was Shillelagh (over near Boley); he had one child baptized in Tomacork parish, but quite a few in Clonmore RC parish, too.
 
He's the connection between the Balfes of Boley and the Balfes of K'town, etc. It would explain the closeness between the Shanks family and OK Nick,  and Thomas Balfe/Sally Kenny in Ontario.
 
Of course, Thomas Balfe (m. Sally Kenny) COULD be a child of the Widow Balfe of BOLEY, but we don't want to go there right now.
 
Still, we're missing some of Patrick and the Widow's kids. I've just guessed at Myles Balfe as one: he married in Tomacork parish, but baptized his kids in Abbeydown, Wexford (Clonegall RC parish).